Monday, May 16, 2011

How to Break the Sad News to Children

Children are considered to be most crucial part of your family. As a parent, you never want to hurt your children in any way. You try to provide all the comforts to your children and also try to protect them from all those things that affect them badly. But there are times when you are forced to break a bad news to your children as you are provided with no other alternative.

Supposing, you have to break the news to your children about the death of any of their grandparents, you do not know the way in which to do it. Often, you find that the children are very close to his grandparents and their death could cause them a lot of pain and misery. Try to break any sad news to your children in as gentle manner as possible as the child is very sensitive. Break the news gently without creating too much of drama. Moreover, you should try your best not to break down in front of your children to mourn the death of any of your parents. The child gets affected by all this and it may have negative effect. You should never hide the death of the grandparents from your children as later on when you try to explain the whole thing to him the child will not be ready to accept it.

Suppose, you are suffering from any financial crunch and you have to explain your situation to your child. Do not break the news all of a sudden. Try to prepare a background to narrate your condition. For example take an example of any of your neighbor whose financial status is less secure. Make your child understand that at some point or another everyone has to live in that way. You should never be rude to your child while trying to break any bad news to him. It affects your child and he might go into depression as well.

Thus, since children are very delicate, you must be very careful while breaking any sad news to your children. You should give ample amount of time to your children in order to help them regain their composure after breaking the sad news. You should always try to be happy in front of your children even during the difficult moments. Never make them feel that the world has come to an end after the mishap. Always inculcate a ray of hope in him and support him in to come out of the situation.

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